When the body gets opened in a hurry, it jumps into action to close it back up. The tissue that usually forms is scar tissue. Scars can come in lots of different shapes and colours, some that divot lower than the skin, others protrude or even keloid. This tissue is like a scaffold, it does…
I have been working with a physio therapist to help me evaluate and improve my level of physicality. Being disabled and coming out of the 2-3 most sedentary years ever, I had found that I was pendulating between over-doing physical activity, or under-doing it from fear of over-doing it and not really knowing my current…
When I was first a participant in Pleasure (your) Chest I had been looking at it for weeks. I was already in some contact with Jess and saw her promotional posts as they went out, thought about it, maybe even wrote it into my calendar. But I didn’t sign up. And then the day it…
If you haven’t already, I invite you to join me on Patreon where I am now on month 3 of a new series, called “BE THE: “. Each month I use the imaginary exploration of an ecosystem to explore awareness, somatic practices and relational alliances with the non-human world. As I post a new exploration…
I had originally signed up to vend at Transfest when it first was announced. I hadn’t really heard back and wasn’t sure if it was a ball I had dropped, or if it was something missing on their end. I double checked and re-registered, paying a tabling fee and set to work preparing my stuff….
I wrote a little musing about where I am at in relationship to my bike and cycling. It’s complicated, it’s personal, it might be relatable. I have made it available for all members to read, including folks who are free members, meaning you can go and check it out even if you haven’t signed up…
I made a couple of little videos about the massive art project I took on in preparation of our wedding last week. It was about 6 weeks of experimenting in a whole bunch of mediums that were new to me, learning as I went, creating a 3 piece arch way that could hold a whole…
Within the field(s) of work that my coaching offerings land in there is often some question of “what is it, exactly, that we do anyways?” I have trained with the Institute of Somatic Sex Education (up to level 3), completed Intimacy Educator training with Caffyn Jesse, and supplemented that with many other shorter trainings, lots…
Excited to be heading over to the new Victoria Disabled Artists Collective Craft Fair this afternoon. So I wanted to muse here a bit about the intersection between craft and erotic wellness. Those who have been following my work for a minute now will now that I run a monthly casual online event where we…
This Wednesday is already the last one of the month! Which means it is time for my monthly online event – Soft Touch Intimate Craft Crossover. This month, the theme is zine making. Without fully knowing that is what I was doing, my friends and I made our first zine in 1991 with a typewriter…
