This Wednesday is already the last one of the month! Which means it is time for my monthly online event – Soft Touch Intimate Craft Crossover. This month, the theme is zine making. Without fully knowing that is what I was doing, my friends and I made our first zine in 1991 with a typewriter…
As a student of somatic sex education I find myself prompting students and clients to notice sensation in their bodies in the ways that I have learned to practice through studying in this field. It took me some time to get to the place where I could understand that the assignment was often just to…
Next month, rather than planning a 3rd Wednesday afternoon Craft Crossover (especially because the 3rd wednesday is the 25th) I’m cooking up something else instead. I’m trying doing 2 different times, one in the afternoon and one after my kid’s bed time. I hope that y’all will join me to explore and practice tools and…
The theme for this month’s Soft Touch Intimate Craft Crossover was costumes & erotic role play. A number of key teachables came up over the 2 hour cozy crafternoon and I thought better than to just leave those points for only those who made it in person. Obviously, I am not going to share anyone…
Hello kind internet friends,I know I have not been doing the best job keeping things up to date here on the website front- I have been as trapped in the dopamine & engagement mines as the masses, but am often annoyed & discouraged by the ways that algorithm driven platforms that have the user reach…
After a full 12 events over 13 months, the Show & Tell has been a project that has been finding it’s feet. I have found ways of hosting this online monthly that seem to refine themselves a bit each time around. Some pieces make sense to carry over from one month to the next, and…
Sex education in schools has long had a well earned reputation for being … less than ideal. My own experiences of school based sexual health education were nearly non-existent. As I was pretty involved in a conservative Christian community through my childhood and teen years, when the permission letters were sent home to give families…
The show & tell is heating up, August 5th, exploring erotic temperature play.
The idea for this month’s show & tell came out of last month’s, ‘ones that got away’ event. As I was exploring the grief of a toy I had come to love, but that had taken on the unforgivable habit of no longer holding a charge, I thought, “I should replace that…. maybe that will…
July’s Show and Tell is taking a new turn and focusing on one specific type of toy. As one of the newest sort of categories of sex tech, air-pulse toys also called clit-suckers have really only been on the market for the last 12 or 15 years. Some on the market incorporate even newer technology,…
May’s Show & Tell is focused on toys and tools that do not measure up. Every toy purchase or acquisition always has some hopes attached- but let’s be real- sometimes… they do not live up to their expectations. Maybe it never really fit right, or it was a step towards something else and you didn’t…
