After a full 12 events over 13 months, the Show & Tell has been a project that has been finding it’s feet. I have found ways of hosting this online monthly that seem to refine themselves a bit each time around. Some pieces make sense to carry over from one month to the next, and…
Sex education in schools has long had a well earned reputation for being … less than ideal. My own experiences of school based sexual health education were nearly non-existent. As I was pretty involved in a conservative Christian community through my childhood and teen years, when the permission letters were sent home to give families…
The show & tell is heating up, August 5th, exploring erotic temperature play.
The idea for this month’s show & tell came out of last month’s, ‘ones that got away’ event. As I was exploring the grief of a toy I had come to love, but that had taken on the unforgivable habit of no longer holding a charge, I thought, “I should replace that…. maybe that will…
July’s Show and Tell is taking a new turn and focusing on one specific type of toy. As one of the newest sort of categories of sex tech, air-pulse toys also called clit-suckers have really only been on the market for the last 12 or 15 years. Some on the market incorporate even newer technology,…
May’s Show & Tell is focused on toys and tools that do not measure up. Every toy purchase or acquisition always has some hopes attached- but let’s be real- sometimes… they do not live up to their expectations. Maybe it never really fit right, or it was a step towards something else and you didn’t…
Please join us this Friday for a special post-holidays Sex Toy Show & Tell. Did you give or get something pretty and sexy this holiday season? Or maybe in a previous year? In my family, my sister has been selling MLM products including vibes and lube for years, so whoever she got in the family…
Whether you are more of a giver, or a receiver, you are welcome to come and Show & Tell with a group of other folks passionate about pleasure and the tools we use to facilitate it. Each month we take a different focus- January is all about showing off presents; whether they were gifts from…
Join us tomorrow (FRIDAY DECEMBER 17) for the latest Sex Toy Show & Tell event I am hosting in my topia. We all have butts, they have a one of the highest concentrations of nerves in the body AND the market of available things that exist to play with all that erogenous potential is at…
Today is my birthday, and I would LOVE if people were into becoming a patron of my work as a way of celebrating with me. I have a lot of things on the go, podcasts brewing and leaking out, writing projects coming together in bits and pieces, Sex Toy Show & Tell events happening every…
I love building programming based on interest. One of the things that has been very cool about the Sex Toy Show & Tell Events so far, is that most of the ideas have come from folks who’ve shared their interests with me either at the events or in conversation about them. At the first Open…
A while back UK researcher Connie Enzler got a hold of me to ask if I would be open to being interviewed for a podcast they were making as a part of their research into gender. I agreed and we recorded a long, emotional interview. Of course I was one of a number of excellent…
