Portal Now Open
Tickets are now on sale for October’s Sex Magic Implement Show & Tell in Kori Doty’s Topia. Co-hosted by author & witch Serena Bhandar. AND… it’s the show & tell’s birthday!
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Reflections
I got a message from a friend whose kid saw a character in a book that reminded her of me. This tells about the book and discusses the importance of queer and trans representation in children’s media.
Donut Club Exclusives
Coming up later this month, I will be hosting the first quarterly Donut Club Exclusive gathering. This social event is set to be the first in a series of exclusive online socials, just for the folks who have been supporting my work. The best way to ensure your invitation is by signing up for the…
Challenging Internalized Shame
Using forum theatre exercise “cops in the head” to counter internalized shame about using medications, specifically cannabis, to support well being.
Enduring & Enjoying
A musing on enduring, enjoying and finding balance, seeking joy and learning from the hard trip of life.
Where’d you learn THAT?
Sex education in schools has long had a well earned reputation for being … less than ideal. My own experiences of school based sexual health education were nearly non-existent. As I was pretty involved in a conservative Christian community through my childhood and teen years, when the permission letters were sent home to give families…
Summer’s Heating Up
The show & tell is heating up, August 5th, exploring erotic temperature play.
Show and Tell Sucker
The idea for this month’s show & tell came out of last month’s, ‘ones that got away’ event. As I was exploring the grief of a toy I had come to love, but that had taken on the unforgivable habit of no longer holding a charge, I thought, “I should replace that…. maybe that will…
July Show & Tell – Toys That Suck… in the best ways
July’s Show and Tell is taking a new turn and focusing on one specific type of toy. As one of the newest sort of categories of sex tech, air-pulse toys also called clit-suckers have really only been on the market for the last 12 or 15 years. Some on the market incorporate even newer technology,…
Show & Tell- The One That Got Away
June’s Sex Toy Show & Tell is all about the ones that got away. Come join us and share about the loss and love of toys gone by.
Show & Tell – The One’s In the Back of The Drawer
May’s Show & Tell is focused on toys and tools that do not measure up. Every toy purchase or acquisition always has some hopes attached- but let’s be real- sometimes… they do not live up to their expectations. Maybe it never really fit right, or it was a step towards something else and you didn’t…
Hopitalized For Now- Update
An update on the ongoing story of Coco’s Cancer Care process.
Show & Tell is getting Gendery- Ticket Sales Close at 8pm
Last chance to buy your tickets for the Sex Toy Show & Tell – Gender Affirmations event.
Trans Day of Visibility 2022
A white trans masculine gender queer person talks about trans day of visibility.
Show & Tell is Back Tomorrow!
Tomorrow evening, please join us in Topia for this months Sex Toy Show & Tell. This months theme is one I have been really looking forward to for months and I hope you will join me is showing and telling all about the toys and tools that exist in the “OFF LABEL” category. Can you…
Cancer Update
When things suck, but help makes it possible to lean in enough that the suck isn’t everything.