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Looking Back on This Is My Body
A few months ago my pierogi (a term of endearment for one of my polyamourous partners) Caitlin, came to Jess and I with an idea. The progressive church, Open Way, where they are co-pastor curates a community building, educational offering each year, focused on a different matter of collective liberation. This year, they proposed, members…
Pre-Holidays Workshop
Next month, rather than planning a 3rd Wednesday afternoon Craft Crossover (especially because the 3rd wednesday is the 25th) I’m cooking up something else instead. I’m trying doing 2 different times, one in the afternoon and one after my kid’s bed time. I hope that y’all will join me to explore and practice tools and…
Role Play Recap- October STICC musings
The theme for this month’s Soft Touch Intimate Craft Crossover was costumes & erotic role play. A number of key teachables came up over the 2 hour cozy crafternoon and I thought better than to just leave those points for only those who made it in person. Obviously, I am not going to share anyone…
Update on Pleasure (your) Chest Community Care Fund
After wrapping up the 5th cohort through the “Pleasure (Your) Chest” workshop series we wanted to give an update to the folks in our community who have been helping us keep this going. As you probably know, we offer this to folks on a sliding scale. We know that there are significant, compounding axis of…
Fatten that Boule
Celebrating booty abundance, grief and growth.
New Book of Poems available for purchase
These poems were written during the month of October 2023, while Kori was care taking their terminally ill partner and co-parent. This writing challenge process offered a space for the immensity of emotions directly associated with the second hand experience of cancer treatment and coming to terms with one’s mortality, but also includes some pieces…
Pleasure (your) Chest – workshop series
Announcing the registration and community care fundraiser for Pleasure (your) Chest an embodiment workshop series for trans masc spectrum folks who have had top surgery
First Spring
Here on the west coast, we barely have much of a Canadian winter, a couple of days of snow, a few blustery rain stormy days, and then… just like that, flowers are popping up, buds are appearing on trees and bushes and the length of days stretches noticeably on both ends. As things are pushing…
February Show & Tell Tickets on Now
Ticket Portal open for February Show & Tell. Be Your Own Best Valentine.
Show & Tell – Gifts & Presence
Looking forward to a cozy Friday evening gathering to dive into gifts and presence. The ticket portal is open til Thursday night.
It’s My Birthday, I’ll shamelessly promote if I want to
It’s My Birthday! I’ll Self-promote all I want!
Why Do I host events in Topia?
I have been thinking about this a lot over the past few weeks, as I made my poster for the CBRC summit, and then as I went to the in person summit and have had more time to ponder about what hosting & attending events is about for me. As someone who continues to keep…