I have been thinking about this a lot over the past few weeks, as I made my poster for the CBRC summit, and then as I went to the in person summit and have had more time to ponder about what hosting & attending events is about for me. As someone who continues to keep…
I got a message from a friend whose kid saw a character in a book that reminded her of me. This tells about the book and discusses the importance of queer and trans representation in children’s media.
A musing on enduring, enjoying and finding balance, seeking joy and learning from the hard trip of life.
An update on the ongoing story of Coco’s Cancer Care process.
A white trans masculine gender queer person talks about trans day of visibility.
When things suck, but help makes it possible to lean in enough that the suck isn’t everything.
Whether you are more of a giver, or a receiver, you are welcome to come and Show & Tell with a group of other folks passionate about pleasure and the tools we use to facilitate it. Each month we take a different focus- January is all about showing off presents; whether they were gifts from…
Join us tomorrow (FRIDAY DECEMBER 17) for the latest Sex Toy Show & Tell event I am hosting in my topia. We all have butts, they have a one of the highest concentrations of nerves in the body AND the market of available things that exist to play with all that erogenous potential is at…
A collection of suggestions to help partiers survive to party another night.
I originally wrote this as a Facebook post, but was very quickly reminded that such a post will likely remain algorithmically buried. Being able to post content like this, without the censure of the social media platforms is one of the reasons I have this website, so figured I should post it here in hopes…
An open letter to parents (especially cis{not trans} gendered and/or straight parents) considering bringing your children to pride, Pride is a cultural festival. It is a festival that comes from a culture of struggle, of resistance. Our culture, queer and trans culture, pride culture, is a beautiful and exciting rainbow sparkle fest, but also has…
