Cancer Update
When things suck, but help makes it possible to lean in enough that the suck isn’t everything.
When things suck, but help makes it possible to lean in enough that the suck isn’t everything.
BC Community Advocates Program (BC COMMA) is an annual program that invites community members from all over BC to help spread the word on the latest trends and insights in queer health.
Hi everyone, due to my family medical crisis this month’s Show and Tell is called off. I hope everyone can take the inspiration to be a good lay (Valentine) to themselves.
Coco was recently diagnosed with stage three cancer after months of abstruse pain and symptom-based investigation.Reaching this diagnosis was a tangled and stressful process.
Today is my birthday, and I would LOVE if people were into becoming a patron of my work as a way of celebrating with me. I have a lot of things on the go, podcasts brewing and leaking out, writing projects coming together in bits and pieces, Sex Toy Show & Tell events happening every…
This post is to announce the launch of the new podcast, ‘Imagination Revolution: UBI’
I love building programming based on interest. One of the things that has been very cool about the Sex Toy Show & Tell Events so far, is that most of the ideas have come from folks who’ve shared their interests with me either at the events or in conversation about them. At the first Open…
“Kori Doty, a trans individual who works as a sex educator in Victoria, is no stranger to challenges that come with being gender-diverse.” Philip McLachlan Canadian Blood Services may loosen rules on gay men. Where does that leave transgender donors? Members of Victoria’s trans community are advocating for the elimination of ‘discriminatory’ and ‘fear-based’ blood…
A while back UK researcher Connie Enzler got a hold of me to ask if I would be open to being interviewed for a podcast they were making as a part of their research into gender. I agreed and we recorded a long, emotional interview. Of course I was one of a number of excellent…
Quality leather goods, especially if taken care of, will last a long time and there’s no good reason that they can’t be properly cleaned, conditioned, and re-distributed should they fall out of personal favour.
Ideally these policies would be alive, informed by robust science, and clear enough in structure to provide ample safety and compassion for all involved in the process.
When I was 19 I moved to Halifax. Right on Barrington, across from the diner I worked in the kitchen, was and still is Venus Envy. That store changed my life, without question. It was where I bought my first, and second dildo, as well as where I first ever learned that transmasculine people existed…
Now that the child has started kindergarten, I am finding my way back to the other things that I used to balance my time with. I never have a shortage of ideas for projects I would like to see happen, or things I want to help out with, but the challenge is often about how…
I originally wrote this as a Facebook post, but was very quickly reminded that such a post will likely remain algorithmically buried. Being able to post content like this, without the censure of the social media platforms is one of the reasons I have this website, so figured I should post it here in hopes…