Cancer Update
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Updates
On Label and Other Art Curated by Summit-Inspired Art 2021
BC Community Advocates Program (BC COMMA) is an annual program that invites community members from all over BC to help spread the word on the latest trends and insights in queer health.
Family Medical Crisis; Show and Tell Cancellation
Hi everyone, due to my family medical crisis this month’s Show and Tell is called off. I hope everyone can take the inspiration to be a good lay (Valentine) to themselves.
Support Coco’s Cancer Care-Queer Crip CoParent Recovery
Coco was recently diagnosed with stage three cancer after months of abstruse pain and symptom-based investigation.Reaching this diagnosis was a tangled and stressful process.
Happy Birthday To Me!
Today is my birthday, and I would LOVE if people were into becoming a patron of my work as a way of celebrating with me. I have a lot of things on the go, podcasts brewing and leaking out, writing projects coming together in bits and pieces, Sex Toy Show & Tell events happening every…
affirmations | boundaries | gender | podcasts | Updates
Imagination Revolution: Initiated!
This post is to announce the launch of the new podcast, ‘Imagination Revolution: UBI’
Upcoming Show & Tell Events!
I love building programming based on interest. One of the things that has been very cool about the Sex Toy Show & Tell Events so far, is that most of the ideas have come from folks who’ve shared their interests with me either at the events or in conversation about them. At the first Open…
Members of Victoria’s trans community are advocating … read more on Capital Daily
“Kori Doty, a trans individual who works as a sex educator in Victoria, is no stranger to challenges that come with being gender-diverse.” Philip McLachlan Canadian Blood Services may loosen rules on gay men. Where does that leave transgender donors? Members of Victoria’s trans community are advocating for the elimination of ‘discriminatory’ and ‘fear-based’ blood…
Gender Dilemma & Podcast Futures
A while back UK researcher Connie Enzler got a hold of me to ask if I would be open to being interviewed for a podcast they were making as a part of their research into gender. I agreed and we recorded a long, emotional interview. Of course I was one of a number of excellent…
Strap-Ons, Leather, and Dildos Loved and Lost
Quality leather goods, especially if taken care of, will last a long time and there’s no good reason that they can’t be properly cleaned, conditioned, and re-distributed should they fall out of personal favour.
Free Blood
Ideally these policies would be alive, informed by robust science, and clear enough in structure to provide ample safety and compassion for all involved in the process.
Show & Tell
When I was 19 I moved to Halifax. Right on Barrington, across from the diner I worked in the kitchen, was and still is Venus Envy. That store changed my life, without question. It was where I bought my first, and second dildo, as well as where I first ever learned that transmasculine people existed…
“Back to Work”
Now that the child has started kindergarten, I am finding my way back to the other things that I used to balance my time with. I never have a shortage of ideas for projects I would like to see happen, or things I want to help out with, but the challenge is often about how…
Overdose Awareness Day 2021
I originally wrote this as a Facebook post, but was very quickly reminded that such a post will likely remain algorithmically buried. Being able to post content like this, without the censure of the social media platforms is one of the reasons I have this website, so figured I should post it here in hopes…
Cervical Abnormality
A story of abnormality, precaution, invisibility, and dividing cells.