Challenging Internalized Shame
Using forum theatre exercise “cops in the head” to counter internalized shame about using medications, specifically cannabis, to support well being.
magic
Enduring & Enjoying
A musing on enduring, enjoying and finding balance, seeking joy and learning from the hard trip of life.
Summer’s Heating Up
The show & tell is heating up, August 5th, exploring erotic temperature play.
Hopitalized For Now- Update
An update on the ongoing story of Coco’s Cancer Care process.
affirmations | boundaries | magic | medical | podcasts
New Podcast Episode Up!
Latest episode of the podcast Imagination Revolution: UBI featuring Rhoneil. This episode is called “Death & Rebirth out of Exploitative Economies” and we explore layers of getting out of the grind.
Did you give/receive something pleasurable this gift season?
Whether you are more of a giver, or a receiver, you are welcome to come and Show & Tell with a group of other folks passionate about pleasure and the tools we use to facilitate it. Each month we take a different focus- January is all about showing off presents; whether they were gifts from…
Happy Birthday To Me!
Today is my birthday, and I would LOVE if people were into becoming a patron of my work as a way of celebrating with me. I have a lot of things on the go, podcasts brewing and leaking out, writing projects coming together in bits and pieces, Sex Toy Show & Tell events happening every…
boundaries | magic | medical
PLUR over Profit
A collection of suggestions to help partiers survive to party another night.
boundaries | magic | parenting
Taking to the Big Trees
I had been very loosely following the development of frontline resistance happening at Fairy Creek over the past year. I knew a few people who had been up, I had heard frustrations, about societal dynamics replicating in ways we’d be better off without and also just struggles to maintain numbers. But as we have to…
Parenting at Pride
An open letter to parents (especially cis{not trans} gendered and/or straight parents) considering bringing your children to pride, Pride is a cultural festival. It is a festival that comes from a culture of struggle, of resistance. Our culture, queer and trans culture, pride culture, is a beautiful and exciting rainbow sparkle fest, but also has…
boundaries | gender | magic | medical | parenting
Pressure Systems
I have just returned home to the homostead from a trip that had rubber ends, originally planned as a jet set 2 day turnaround to see Janelle Monae perform in Vancouver. I did go to the show, and it was amazing. But way more amazing than my current state could handle. I sat down mid…
Reconciling with Recipes
One of my goals for this year is to get on better terms with structures and tools like schedules, recipes and budgets, in efforts to run an over all tighter ship. I am tired of being caught off guard by bills that shouldn’t have been unexpected, double bookings and staring into the abyss of the…
Feeding The Canary
I haven’t written much about Searyl’s allergies, but yesterday we had a day out that reminded me that it was something I had been meaning to do. They are almost 11 months old now, and as kids are apt to do, they have been challenging me in some of the ways I perhaps most needed…