Portal Now Open
Tickets are now on sale for October’s Sex Magic Implement Show & Tell in Kori Doty’s Topia. Co-hosted by author & witch Serena Bhandar. AND… it’s the show & tell’s birthday!
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affirmations | gender | magic | parenting
Reflections
I got a message from a friend whose kid saw a character in a book that reminded her of me. This tells about the book and discusses the importance of queer and trans representation in children’s media.
Donut Club Exclusives
Coming up later this month, I will be hosting the first quarterly Donut Club Exclusive gathering. This social event is set to be the first in a series of exclusive online socials, just for the folks who have been supporting my work. The best way to ensure your invitation is by signing up for the…
Where’d you learn THAT?
Sex education in schools has long had a well earned reputation for being … less than ideal. My own experiences of school based sexual health education were nearly non-existent. As I was pretty involved in a conservative Christian community through my childhood and teen years, when the permission letters were sent home to give families…
Show & Tell is getting Gendery- Ticket Sales Close at 8pm
Last chance to buy your tickets for the Sex Toy Show & Tell – Gender Affirmations event.
Trans Day of Visibility 2022
A white trans masculine gender queer person talks about trans day of visibility.
Show & Tell is Back Tomorrow!
Tomorrow evening, please join us in Topia for this months Sex Toy Show & Tell. This months theme is one I have been really looking forward to for months and I hope you will join me is showing and telling all about the toys and tools that exist in the “OFF LABEL” category. Can you…
Gifts that keep giving
Please join us this Friday for a special post-holidays Sex Toy Show & Tell. Did you give or get something pretty and sexy this holiday season? Or maybe in a previous year? In my family, my sister has been selling MLM products including vibes and lube for years, so whoever she got in the family…
Did you give/receive something pleasurable this gift season?
Whether you are more of a giver, or a receiver, you are welcome to come and Show & Tell with a group of other folks passionate about pleasure and the tools we use to facilitate it. Each month we take a different focus- January is all about showing off presents; whether they were gifts from…
Liminal Chrysalis- On It’s Way to a Book Shelf Near You!
The book I co-edited is almost in print! Pre-order for discounts today.
Cervical Abnormality
A story of abnormality, precaution, invisibility, and dividing cells.
Upcoming Speaking Events
As spring is springing, you will find me emerging into this new world of public speaking, direct from my living room to yours! With Covid-19 event restrictions in place for a full year now, event organizers are moving towards ways to bring people together digitally and I have a couple of conference speaking gigs this…
In Whose Best Interest?
As much as I wish that we could move forward with scientifically backed measures like bans to conversion therapy, allowing trans or gender questioning youth to access hormone blockers and medically assisted transitional puberty, or implementation of SOGI 123 diversity and inclusion curriculum, we are unfortunately in a time where many people are really adamantly…
Trans Awareness Week 2020
This week is marked as Trans Awareness Week, and I have been unsure how exactly to observe. I am sharing an IG Live with fellow gender autonomy parent, Dr Kyl Myers on Tuesday evening, and I wanted to gather my thoughts a bit in preparation of that. She invited me to share her audience and…
affirmations | boundaries | gender | Updates
Preserving Women’s Space?
This was originally written as a comment on the posting of an article on the facebook wall of my dear friend and collaborator barbara findlay. Being a generation or 2 older than me, and with a long history of involvement in legal activism on behalf of LGBTQ+ communities and individuals, her network includes individuals with…
Parenting at Pride
An open letter to parents (especially cis{not trans} gendered and/or straight parents) considering bringing your children to pride, Pride is a cultural festival. It is a festival that comes from a culture of struggle, of resistance. Our culture, queer and trans culture, pride culture, is a beautiful and exciting rainbow sparkle fest, but also has…