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PLUR over Profit
A collection of suggestions to help partiers survive to party another night.
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Liminal Chrysalis- On It’s Way to a Book Shelf Near You!
The book I co-edited is almost in print! Pre-order for discounts today.
Strap-Ons, Leather, and Dildos Loved and Lost
Quality leather goods, especially if taken care of, will last a long time and there’s no good reason that they can’t be properly cleaned, conditioned, and re-distributed should they fall out of personal favour.
Show And Tell for Grown Ups: focus on strap-ons + related accessories
This event is a chance for pleasure seekers, sex educators, and toy designers + sellers to come together- and share what we are coming for/with.
Show And Tell for Grown Ups on Friday October 8
I’m hosting an online event! You can sign up at Eventbrite. Fri, October 8, 20218:00 PM – 10:30 PM PDT This event is a chance for pleasure seekers, sex educators, and toy designers + sellers to come together- and share what we are coming for/with. The plan is to host these events monthly; once interest…
Free Blood
Ideally these policies would be alive, informed by robust science, and clear enough in structure to provide ample safety and compassion for all involved in the process.
Show & Tell
When I was 19 I moved to Halifax. Right on Barrington, across from the diner I worked in the kitchen, was and still is Venus Envy. That store changed my life, without question. It was where I bought my first, and second dildo, as well as where I first ever learned that transmasculine people existed…
“Back to Work”
Now that the child has started kindergarten, I am finding my way back to the other things that I used to balance my time with. I never have a shortage of ideas for projects I would like to see happen, or things I want to help out with, but the challenge is often about how…
Overdose Awareness Day 2021
I originally wrote this as a Facebook post, but was very quickly reminded that such a post will likely remain algorithmically buried. Being able to post content like this, without the censure of the social media platforms is one of the reasons I have this website, so figured I should post it here in hopes…
boundaries | magic | parenting
Taking to the Big Trees
I had been very loosely following the development of frontline resistance happening at Fairy Creek over the past year. I knew a few people who had been up, I had heard frustrations, about societal dynamics replicating in ways we’d be better off without and also just struggles to maintain numbers. But as we have to…
Cervical Abnormality
A story of abnormality, precaution, invisibility, and dividing cells.
In Solidarity with Asian Body Workers
I first posted this to Facebook, but it seems to be algorithmically buried in a way that is preventing it from being seen in the common feed. It’s been fairly well documented that platforms do this to posts that address racism, sex worker stigma, and other elements explored here-in. Every once in a while when…
Upcoming Speaking Events
As spring is springing, you will find me emerging into this new world of public speaking, direct from my living room to yours! With Covid-19 event restrictions in place for a full year now, event organizers are moving towards ways to bring people together digitally and I have a couple of conference speaking gigs this…
In Whose Best Interest?
As much as I wish that we could move forward with scientifically backed measures like bans to conversion therapy, allowing trans or gender questioning youth to access hormone blockers and medically assisted transitional puberty, or implementation of SOGI 123 diversity and inclusion curriculum, we are unfortunately in a time where many people are really adamantly…
STI Testing Panel Livestream- Dec 1, 2020
This is an opportunity to acknowledge, respect and appreciate the wisdom and leadership of queer, trans, sex worker and drug user communities when it comes to public health, testing, harm reduction, and health advocacy.
Resilience Building Content
Much of the content I originally compiled for the Resilience Building for Trans Folks and Our Allies course has become a bit stale dated over the past 4 years. In effort to make some of the content available so as to support my contribution to Trans Awareness Week, I have made a Notion board that…